Comment from: spidermonkey [Member] Email
I've been in living situation where this sort of thing has worked out pretty well and ones where it hasn't. Here's my two cents.

My wife and I have a standing agreement: She dirties the dishes and I clean them. (By dirties the dishes, I mean she does most of the cooking.) It works, since she's the better cook and I don't mind cleaning the dishes as much.

There's numerous other household tasks we've divvied up. When one is too busy or tired or just wants a change, the other helps out. In a situation where everyone involved is willing to play their part, I've found it can help to give some jobs to the people best suited for them. It hasn't always worked perfectly for us, but it has worked.

Given that roommate situations are not a marriage, this won't work equally in every household. Even when some of the divvying's been done ahead of time, it's important for everyone to clean up after themselves and pitch in where they see it's needed, especially in the common areas.

It takes a measure of willingness and graciousness. In situations where members are unwilling to help maintain the common areas, even when asked, or are inordinately temperamental about it, there's bound to be problems.

Now, if anyone finds a way for the cat to help out where there's no barn full of mice, please let me know.
01/13/11 @ 20:34
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